Sunday, June 27, 2010

[27.06.10] Tributes to the Fathers

Basically, and seriously, I knew that I am kinda late to write this out? 
Truly, my tears can't stop falling down from my cheeks after watching a movie production by Jack Neo which was aired during last weekend CHC Singapore's service that was entitled The Star. 
I am glad, that I have my biological father, and my Heavenly Father.

What a beautiful scene, ain't the picture speaks it by itself? It wasn't me and my dad, but how badly do I wish that I have a photo like this, of which my dad holds my hand so tightly.. =)

When I was young or probably up till now, Daddy was always far away from me. Most of the time, Daddy would be away for business. I would only sees my dad once a fortnight or sometimes, even once a month. 
I love my Daddy. I remember there was once, when the fan in my room that I sleeps in, the cover of the fan suddenly opens and the lips of the fan suddenly flies out and directs toward me. I was so afraid that I'm glad I managed to use the blanket to cover myself up. Mum couldn't really calm me down,yet Daddy was far away from me. Daddy then called up, and I felt so relieved. I became even brave. 

As I gets older, I was often told how bad my dad was. Not fulfiling his responsibility most of the time.
On the other hand, often I felt that Daddy wasn't fair to me, and he was always so bias. Blessing my other siblings with new things, but I often have to use second hand stuff, or sometimes I don't even get anything. 
People around Daddy, most of the time looked down on him, especially his own family members and siblings. Nevertheless, people would always uttered things just like "Like father like son" People criticize and eventually classified us as the same "thing". True enough, they were WRONG.
Just when people think that my dad is such a jerk and bad guy, I would say that my dad has made me learned a lot of things, more than what you can learn through books, schools and etc. 

When I saw my Dad is illiterate,couldn't do well in business and really achieve any great success in life, my Daddy has just made me learned that knowledge, and wisdom is so important in life in order to achieve success. 

When I saw my Daddy was in huge debts after failing in business at times, my Daddy has just taught me that financial management is so important. Saving for the rainy days are always necessary and it is a must. 

When I saw my Daddy couldn't be with me and the family most of the time, Daddy has just made me realized that in my future, spending time with the family, showing them love and care is not just a responsibility, but it is a need because the wife and children needs them. 

When I saw my Daddy used to fight during his childhood days in order to protect himself, Daddy taught me that fighting couldn't really help much. For a person who wins a fight, is the person who can stop the fight without lifting his own fist and knocking the opponent down.

When I saw that my Daddy never really gives me more like what he gives to other siblings, my Daddy has just taught me to be fair towards my children and people around me in my life. 

When I saw that my Daddy seems to be not as good as other people's father, he had just reminded me that no one is perfect. On the other hand, he made me realized of a Heavenly Father that loves me, and made me realized all these things today that I shall not only love this Heavenly Father, but also honor my Daddy who has taught me all these priceless lesson in life. 

My Heavenly Father, I thank you today that you touched me once again. You always have your own way. =)

My Daddy, no one is perfect. Among all, I have eventually realized that you are the perfect Daddy that my Heavenly Father have blessed me. I love you. 

 This image speaks of a Father who would always hold his Son. No matter what happen, it would never break the bonds and changes the relationship status between the two of you. If one day, your Daddy seems to have grab you lighter, that's the time you should grab your Daddy's hand tighter. 

When you were young, your dad knew that you are still weak, that's why he always hold you tight so that you are protected. 

When your dad were old, hold him tight, because he have spent his whole life holding your hand so tight that he is now, going weaker.  
It's time, for you to show your love, and protection. 


By, 
David Teh

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